Communication

Communication: Preventing and Solving Problems

Good relationships are not built because of an absence of problems. Nobody is immune from problems. All men are sinners (see Romans 3:10-18), which means that they are selfish and often sin against each other--and that is all that it takes to set the stage for conflicts. But take heart! Solid and lasting relationships can be built by people who know Jesus Christ as Savior and who learn to deal with problems biblically. In Ephesians 4:22-24, Paul reminds us that that we should not continue to live as lost people do (verses 17-19), since we have put off the old man (i.e. the unregenerate man) and have put on the new man (i.e. the regenerate or saved man). Instead, we should learn to practice in our behavior what we already are in our new position in Christ. We need to continue what began at salvation by putting off the old, unrighteous habits and putting on new, godly habits. In the verses that follow (verses 25-32), Paul illustrates how this put off/put on dynamic applies to a critical area of the believer's growth--communication. There are Four Rules of Communication which God wants us to use in all our relationships. They are good for both preventing and solving problems with others

Creat

On the first day God created the cow.God said,you must go to field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun,have calves and give milk to support the farmer.I will give you a life span of sixty years.

The cow said;That`s kind of a tought life you want me to live for sixty years.let me have twenty years and I`ll give back the other forty.and god agreed.

On the second day,God created the dog.God said,``sit all day by the door of your house bark at anyone who comes in or walk past.I will give you a life span of twenty years.``the dog said,``That`s too long to be barking.Give me ten years and I`ll give back the other ten. So god agreed sight

 On the third day God created the monkey.God said,``said entertain people, do monkey tricks,make them laugh.I`ll give you a twenty years life span.``Monkey said,``How boring,monkey tricks for twenty years? I don`t think so.Dog gave back ten,so that`s what I`ll do too, okey?`` And God agreed again.

On the fourth day God created man.God said,``Eat,Sleep,Play, Have sex ,Enjoy.Do nothing,just enjoy,enjoy.I`ll give you twenty years.``Man said,``what? Only twenty years? No way man.Tell you what,I`ll take my twenty,and the forty cow gave back, and the ten dog gave back and the ten monkey gave back.That`s make eighty, okey?``  ``okey,``said God. ``You`ve got a deal.``

So,that is why for the first twenty years we eat,sleep,play,have sex,enjoy and do nothing ;for the next forty years we slave in the sun to supprt our family;for the next ten years we do monkey tricks to entertain our grandchildren;and for the last ten years we sit in front of the house and bark at everybody.

By : Mahmood Shirazi  

How to be happy

Why do some people enjoy life and others don't? Psychologists are spending $30m on trying to find out. Ian Sample reports 

By : Mahmoud Shirazi‌‌‌‌‌

Propose a movement whose aim is to bottle happiness so it can be dispensed to one and all, saving humanity from a future of chronic misery, and you might expect at least a few people to roll their eyes. But, starting tomorrow, Britain's most prestigious scientific institution, the Royal Society, will host a meeting for some of the world's top psychologists who have done just that. Over two days, they will discuss "the science of wellbeing". Their aim is to find out why it is that some people's lives go so right. What is it that makes them happy and fulfilled, while others seem doomed to founder in misery, dissatisfaction and dejection